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DEAR AUNTY ZUBAIDA......
I am a 18 year old student at college, i have fancied this girl ever since i have come to college. but aunty the problem is that when ever she comes near me i get scared i am not sure of my sexuality cos there is a lad i quite like at college (not going into to much detail). I like it when two of us are together i have known him for 6 years we have drinking sessions together at the bridge and go to parties as well. i have told one of my female friends about this but she just took the piss out of me and said that asian lads are not supposed to be gay. i don't know whether i should see that girl or not because she will be my first ever girlfriend and would not like any one to find out about my other little secret. Can you please reply to this because i am get increasingly paronoide over this, i have start drinking heavily to seek attention of others but nothing seems to work. waiting for your reply. please help!!!
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DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM?
DEAR AUNTY ZUBAIDA...
im 16 year old girl, who has just started dating a guy,for the first time in my life, but im scared because i have never kissed anyone and dont know how to. all my friends talk about french kissing, but i dont know what that is, i dont know the basic steps of kissing, please could you tell me the basic steps, or i will get laughed at by my boyfreind when i do kiss him, and then by my friends. please aunty help my life before it becomes a misery.thank you
MEENA london
Dear MEENA.
The thing that you must realise is that, no one is a born perfectionist, there is absolutely no reason for you to be afraid of anything. Take things as they come naturally. As far as french kissing is involved, this is where the tongue is involved. But do remember, it may be his first time kissing aswell, but when you do try it, you will realise that kissing is natural and unique to each individual. Dont be afraid, and remember the most important thing, if you dont feel like kissing then dont.Once you feel emotionally secure with this boy then you can both experiment until then do not feel pressurised into anything.
DEAR AUNTY ZUBAIDA.......
HELP!! Dear aunty, i think i am in a whole load of s**t. The thing is, im a university student, spent the last 2 years clubbin, pubbin and generally chillin, (oh aswell as doin some work).
The problem is i slept with one of my best friends after a great night out. Shes also an asian and at university, however a great night out and in doesnt end there. Shes gonna have my baby. Being the decent sort of lad, i wanna be there for my friend and our child, especially as her family have disowned her. Do i confront my family about the matter is the question? and what makes it even worse is that i dont have deep down feelings for my friend, WOT DO I DO??
AUNTY SAYS.......
First of all you should be respected for wanting to take on the responsibility of being a part of your childs life,however it is important for you to know just how much of a part you can play. You no doubt have to be there for your friend as she has been disowned by her parents.You need to choose between the possibility of losing your family or doing your duty. It is your call, but please be sure of all you do.
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